Good evening parents, students and the seniors of Class 2023,
As the recipient of the Bob Christian Alumnus of the Year 2023 award, I would like to thank Dr. Roukema and the Award’s Selection Committee for choosing me among other promising candidates. This is particularly meaningful in the year of Bob Christian’s passing.
I want to thank my Mom and Dad for giving me the opportunity to have such an incredibly enriching experience at HKIS. The school really served as the foundation layer for who I am today.
I went to HKIS from grades 5 to 12 – all at South Bay. At that time, there was no Tai Tam campus. All of my memories were from those two buildings. Fondly, I remember my 5th grade teacher, Larry Neumann and my French teacher, Nancy Kroonenberg. She has long since retired and lives in the Netherlands. A few years ago, while on a family holiday in Amsterdam, I had the opportunity to introduce her to my wife and kids! How cool is that! A few months later, I was running a marathon in Albania and posted to social media. That led to a catch-up with another teacher, Joe Feia, in Tirana where he now teaches. Needless to say, the alumni community is global. HKIS is very special that way. Friendships are literally for life.
As a side note to that, Kwoon Chung Motors, the bus company that is contracted to take our kids to and from school – as a parent, we either love it or hate it. I loved it. The bus ride was an integral part of the school experience. The founder of Kwoon Chung Motors was a guy named Matthew Wong. Kwoon Chung Motors used to be a start-up. And you know what, he drove my bus route! He picked me up and dropped me off. Sometimes, he forgot to drop me off and I missed my bus stop.
Needless to say, I was so distraught when the Lower Primary School was torn down to make way for a brand-new school. It felt as if all of my memories went down with it. But in its place was a brand-new structure with the most amazing facilities that my kids and future generations can benefit from so I guess it was a fair trade.
HKIS was a pivotal time for me. It was a time of “firsts” in my childhood. First time learning how to swim. First time to learn another language. First time to compete in sports. First time at high school prom. First girlfriend. First break-up.
I was always the smallest kid in class every single year. Being small made me the target of all the short jokes, small jokes, little jokes but I took it all in stride. I felt like being the smallest guy meant I had the smallest opportunities.
But I found my pillar of confidence to be in sports. So, I joined varsity teams in track and field, cross country, played volleyball and rugby. I went to USC to study business. A big university in a sprawling city like Los Angeles added another dimension of complexity in my character development. Then came rock climbing, accelerated freefall skydiving and I even got my divemaster scuba certification. But I kept searching for “what’s the hardest thing out there?” Then I discovered multi-day ultra-endurance events. My first one was in the jungles of Sabah, Malaysia. 500 km in 10 days, non-stop. Wow, that was such an eye opener as to what I thought I can’t do, never do, won’t do, impossible to do, to cross the finishing line. I went on to run 19 more ultra-marathons…highest, driest, hottest, coldest, then the Amazon Jungle, Antarctica, Iceland, Namibia, Madagascar, Bhutan and many more. It didn’t matter if I had hamburger feet, 50 Celsius, -26 Celsius, a sandstorm or crazy jungle rain – I just found a way to reach down deep inside to muster enough willpower to run for 6 consecutive days and cross the finish line.
I also share this mindset with my kids. Last summer, they ran 5 km with only to stop for water breaks.